Buying chandeliers consists of tiny shades (mini shades) can help you by avoiding glare problem. Also you can avoid glare problems by adding tiny shades to a bare candle type lighting. Sconces, table lamps and recessed lighting can add magic to the Fixture in your room.
Your chandelier should match with the nature of other furnitures as well as the color, wallpaper, electronics, wall sconces and even floor of the room.